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Thursday, February 9, 2012

Women Voters Will Decide The Winner In 2012

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       Women’s Votes Could Determine Election Outcome 
By Don White
January 9, 2010
Statistics from the following are from the blog Woman's Watch, but our research confirms its findings:


Former Speaker of the House, Nancy Pelosi
is now the leader of the Democrats in the
House of Representatives and yields a lot of
power, potentially as much or more than any
Democrat man in Congress.

  • Women Are a Clear Majority of Voters
  • Significant gender gaps in most polls this year (this was a 2008 trend, but seems true today as well) – with women more likely than men to favor the Democratic ticket– mean a heavy turnout among women could make the difference in a close election, according to the Center for American Women and Politics (CAWP). The review of voting rates since 1964 is part of Women’s Vote Watch, a weekly look at the women’s vote in the 2008 presidential election.
  • Women have voted at higher rates than men in every presidential election since 1980, and the number of women voters has exceeded the number of men voting in every presidential election since 1964, according to U.S. Bureau of the Census statistics. Women outnumber men among registered as well as actual voters. 

What does the above mean? Perhaps it means both parties should be running a woman candidate instead of a man for president. It also means, the Democrat party probably made the wrong choice of a black over a woman when they favored Barak Oboma over Hilary Clinton by a wide margin in the 2008 Democratic Party Primary. Perhaps Hilary carried too much inherited baggage from Bill Clinton.

It is a known fact that women comprise a majority of high school students going on to college today. Men seem to have favored becoming high-paying "nerds" in high school and many of them by-passed college. Unless a man is a jock with a scholarship or has a heritage in his family of going to college, there are compelling reasons for him to prefer marriage and a potentially higher-paying job NOW rather than struggling for the next four years to get a degree of dubious value to him financially.

In IQ tests, a growing number of high school women students are scoring higher than their men counterparts. Does this mean women are inherently smarter than men? No. It means as students women apply themselves better than men. Women seem to be better adjusted, as a group, in high school. They seem to like the rigidity and focused program of a college curricula much better than their men counterparts who as freshmen in college are still highly motivated by their abundant testosterone that frequently gets in the way of putting their nose to the grindstone and really putting everything else aside and studying hard for grades.

As one anonymous Rutgers freshman said, "I don't think grades mean as much as they used to. In the long term, on the job it's the person who can transfer that knowledge to practical applications to get the job done who is most valuable, don't you think?"

We could agree if that person was a hospital nurse, for example, whose major value could be in how he/she handled the patients and performed medical functions like taking blood pressure, therapy, moving and turning patients over in bed, getting the patient to take their medication, and the like.

But in the long run, women becoming better students and smarter than men could mean that women gain the better paying jobs in business, science, and industry and that the less qualified men may wind up working for a woman--much the same way that in most businesses today it is a man, not a woman, at the helm, hiring and firing women. This trend is changing and withing a very short time it will be the woman at the top--if they can mentally perceive themselves breaking the illusory "glass ceiling."

Even today, many men stay home and nurture the children, while the better-trained woman goes to work and earns the paycheck. Sometimes that is a good thing, and in particular instances some men are actually better at home than even the women. But generally, this is a bad trend. Women are the natural nurturers, men are not. Nurturing children is the woman's natural role. But, unfortunately, in many cases for economic reasons those roles are reversing and the change in how a woman perceives herself is changing voting patterns, too.

In 2004, registered voters numbered 72.4 million women and 63.4 million men. With new voter registrations at an all time high in 2008 and in 2012, there are indications that women may be registering at higher rates than men in that election cycle, thereby adding to the advantage women have over men among potential voters.  A May 2008 survey of state election officials by the Associated Press found that in the six states that collected voter data by gender comparing 2008 with 2004, the registration rate for new voters was up 89 percent among women, compared with 74 percent among men. We predict when surveys are done in 2012, the same result will be found. In other words, this is a national trend, not an outlying statistic.

In 2004, 8.8 million more women than men voted, according to official figures from the U.S. Bureau of the
Census.  Based on past patterns and the data about new registrants, women voters easily outnumbered male
voters by more than 9 million in the 2008 election. “It is not surprising that the presidential campaigns are paying unprecedented attention to women voters [in 2012] this year,” observes Susan J. Carroll, senior scholar at the Center for American Women and Politics. “Women are a clear majority of the electorate and may play a pivotal role in the outcome of the election.”

Women outvoted men in 2004 (in terms of both turnout rates and actual numbers) in every racial and ethnic
group–African American, Latino, Asian/Pacific Islander, and white – and among voters under the age of 65.
Watch out, men, you are no longer the dominate gender in college, business, or politics, though the establishment in both parties, older men politician-hangers on, would like to say differently.


Jeanette Rankin, first woman to be
elected to Congress in 1917, some-
times known as the "Woman of the
House."
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In politics, men seem to have little to fear. The "good old boy" dogma still predominates: Since the beginning of the 20th century, a number of women have served in the United States House of Representatives. The first woman to be elected to the United States Congress was Jeanette Rankin, a Republican from Montana elected in 1917. 229 women have served in total as of 2009. As of 2011, there are 72 women (constituting 16.6% of all Representatives) serving in the House of Representatives, not a very imposing figure.
Women have been elected to the House of Representatives from 44 of the 50 states in the United States. The states that have not elected a woman to the house are AlaskaDelawareIowaMississippiNorth Dakota, and Vermont. However, women have represented Alaska and North Dakota in the United States Senate, and Alaska, Delaware, and Vermont have all elected female governors. The highest position yet held by a woman in Iowa and Mississippi is that of Lt. Governor. There are several states that have elected women to the house in the past but do not currently have any female Representatives. They are Rhode IslandNew JerseySouth CarolinaGeorgiaIndianaNew HampshireOklahoma,LouisianaUtahIdahoKentuckyArkansasNebraskaMontanaVirginia and New Mexico.However, Louisiana currently has a woman representing it in the United States Senate, Senator Mary Landrieuand New Hampshire currently has two women representing it in the United States Senate, SenatorsJeanne Shaheen and Kelly Ayotte.

Why is Rick Santorum winning the GOP Primaries?--he has won four states to Romney's three--is a big question.  But CNN said in Iowa the women are going for him big. CNN entrance polls showed that the majority of women were supporting Santorum at twenty-seven percent (despite the sweater vest). It wasn’t a woman candidate this time, but I’m convinced that it will happen. The other plus for him are the 40 million Catholics in America. He, rather than Newt who is also Catholic, is getting a high majority of the Catholic vote. But it's Santorum's good looks and energy that he brings to the primaries that are catching the women's eyes. His stand on abortion won't please all of the women, but on balance he doesn't hurt himself with women voters and they like his approach. The fact that he is only 48 doesn't hurt, either.

Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2012/01/04/why-santorum-appeals-to-women-and-evangelicals/#ixzz1lu5Zy6RX
Why aren't women gravitating to a very wise man, Ron Paul who is age 76? It may be his looks and his age. I gave women a big compliment for brainpower early in this article. But in voting for the other candidates, and not for Ron Paul, they are missing the point. The election isn't about youth or good looks, it's all about which candidate can deliver on his promises and which candidate has a platform that can meet the current monetary challenges to this country--challenges that will soon topple not just the American government and its prosperity, but its ability to exist as a sovereign nation. Ron Paul has all of the answers.Ron Paul has the experience, knowledge, and ability to lead the US through this crisis. They others are merely posturing. Read about his 50 elements or virtues we must install in our thinking and actions in my $2.99 ebook at Barnes or Amazon, Patriot Call of Ron Paul, a must read for all American voters--particularly women and young people. http://bit.ly/tjGsUc

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Ten Great Tips For Lasting Relationships

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Ten Tips For Being More Patient In A Relationship

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For some of us, new relationships come with a sense of urgency. We’re eager to reach the next big milestone, especially as we get older. This same feeling of immediacy can cause us to push too hard or come on too strong, putting a strain on the fragile bonds formed in the early days. If you’ve ever been accused of being too intense, here are some tips to ensure that your next relationship isn’t smothered in its infancy.
  1. Step Away From the Cell Phone – In our constantly-connected society, it’s easy to flood a new partner with Facebook wall posts, texts and emails from a cell phone. While keeping a line of communication open is vital, it’s equally important to allow a new relationship some breathing room.
  2. Spend Time With Friends – Don’t be a cliché by ignoring your friends in favor of a new honey. If you have a long-standing tradition of poker with the boys or girl’s night margaritas, keep it. Your friends will be more likely to accept a mate that doesn’t take up all of your time, and these outings will give the two of you something to talk about the next time you get together.
  3. Focus On Your Hobbies and Favorite Pastimes – Losing yourself completely in a new relationship can easily be the kiss of death; your interests and pastimes are likely a big part of what attracted your new mate. Letting them fall to the wayside to spend every moment together leaves very little material for conversation and can cause your lover to feel stifled.
  4. Avoid “The Talk” – It’s natural to wonder where a new relationship is headed, but it’s a good idea to hold off on having “The Talk” for a while. Letting things develop naturally can be a bit nerve-wracking, but it’s necessary.
  5. Keep It Light – In the early days of a relationship, it’s best to avoid the heavy plans for your future and talk of marriage and children. Don’t introduce your long-term plans when a coupling is new, or it may not last very long.
  6. Be Careful With the Booze – There’s a reason why alcohol is also called “Truth Serum.” One phone call after a night of drinking can undo all of your cautious work when you’ve just started dating someone.
  7. Don’t Change Your Plans – Before you met your new love interest, you probably had some long-term goals and plans for your future. Avoid the temptation to change those plans to suit a brand-new relationship; despite how you feel in the honeymoon phase, there is always a chance that things won’t work out.
  8. Keep Your Priorities Straight – Though it’s difficult in the first blush, try to keep your priorities in line. Don’t let your new relationship take a toll on your work or other obligations, as it can very easily cause resentment when things inevitably begin to cool down and you’re forced to play catch-up.
  9. Don’t Play Mind Games – When things aren’t moving as quickly as you’d like, don’t resort to passive-aggressive mind games. Slyly referencing others that are interested in you or the ex that still has feelings will almost always blow up in your face.
  10. Hold Off On Introducing the Family – Even if you have the most welcoming and interesting family on the planet, your new love interest shouldn’t be meeting them for a while. Family members will ask questions that you may not be ready to answer, which will put undue pressure on you both.
No matter how desperately you want to find The One, it’s always best to go with the flow and let things develop naturally. If your new lover feels stifled, they’re more likely to lose interest altogether.

Friday, December 16, 2011

Dating: The Wisdom of Taking It Slowly

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10 Definitions of Taking it Slow


What does it mean to, “Take it slow”?  When you are in a new relationship you might be tempted to go to the next level, but what if your significant other wants to slow things down?  What does that mean?  Does it mean the same thing to everyone?  Check out 10 definitions of taking it slow.
  1. Let’s still see other people: This may be more a fear of commitment than taking it slow.  If your significant other wants to continue to see other people then there may be more going on there.  If you are good with seeing other people for now and not getting into a heavy relationship then great, but if you are looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right then you really need to clarify things.
  2. Let’s wait on sex: Traditionally I think this is one of the main points of taking things slowly.  One or both of you want to make sure that this relationship is right before jumping into bed.  In this day in age with all of the diseases that you can catch from not being safe, it’s a good idea to know who you are sleeping with.
  3. I want more romance: Another idea of taking it slow is that you want to be more old- fashioned and bring back the romance.  There is nothing wrong with bringing a woman a flower or flowers.  It’s sweet to just hold hands and spend some time getting to know each other.  You can always speed things up if the time seems right to both of you, but it’s hard to go from sleeping together to just holding hands.  Seems a bit backward.
  4. Sleeping together with no sex: Some people think taking it slow is to not rush into sex, but sleeping in the same bed is fine.  If this is fine with both parties then that’s great, but it might not be everyone’s idea of taking it slow.  It takes a lot of trust to sleep with someone and not know what they are doing while you are sleeping.  You might still want to know someone pretty well before you have a sleepover.
  5. 3-5 dates before becoming exclusive: To some taking it slow isn’t really as slow as you might think.  If you are used to sleeping together on the first date I supposed waiting for a few more dates before you sleep together is taking slowly.  Just make sure that you are both on the same page on the relationship.  If she is pushing you to have sex and you want to wait so that you don’t mess things up, then let her know that.
  6. I’m not that into you sexually: Of course no one is going to tell you this straight out.  But it might be the reason behind wanting to take it slow.  Especially with women, once they get to know a man better they will trust him enough to tell him what makes her tick in bed.  If she is not blown away by you sexually at the beginning she may just want to ease into it a bit.
  7. She’s not that into sex: Taking it slow could mean that she wants to be friends first and then if things progress she might be ready for sex later.  Some women aren’t that into sex or they are really shy about their bodies and they want to make sure they can trust the guy thoroughly before getting naked with him.
  8. You might be, “The One”: Sometimes when people meet someone so special that they start thinking that they might be “the one” for them then they might want to slow things down.  You want to be sure if you think this might be the last person you ever sleep with.  Rushing into things might spoil the romance of the whole courtship.
  9. I want to get to know you better: Sex throws a whole new aspect into a relationship.  Everything changes and instead of anticipating and being excited you’re all, been there-done that.  If more people waited, we might have fewer divorces.
  10. I don’t want to get hurt again: To some, having sex is a very emotional thing and for women especially this connection often leads to attachment.  If you’ve jumped into the sack too quickly in past relationships and they just end in failure then taking it slow could just mean that this time I want things to be different.  I don’t want to get hurt again.  I want to be sure.  This is the smart way to go in my opinion.

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Is The Fed Dead?

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“Nigel Farage On Greece: 'We All Know They're Going To Default'” plus 8 more
 



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Start watching at the 40-second mark for the uncomfortable Geithner smiles.  
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Clip is a summary of the Geithner European meetings today.  The emphatic statement from German leader Angela Merkel comes at the 2-minute mark.  
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  You do NOT need to be a California resident to cast a vote.  Guess who's winning - none other than Ron Paul. Cast Your Vote NOW --- The presidential straw poll planned for...
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Pretty decent spoof of the Mastercard 'Priceless' commercials and solid Friday afternoon fodder.  All the Wall Street bailout culprits are named and TARP totals given.  Now, if and when...
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Relax, it's Friday.  Police used water cannons and tear gas to disperse the crowd.  
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Clip runs 30 seconds. The people in charge of the upcoming DNC convention to be held in Charlotte, NC, stipulate in their contract that the convention center not be allowed to get above 72...
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Monday, August 29, 2011

How To Get Over A Breakup

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5 Wrong Ways to Get Over Your Ex


By Laura Yarborough,BounceBack.com Editorial Staff

There comes a time in every person’s life when we have no choice but to get over ourselves. Yeah, we’ve made tons of mistakes in our own relationships,or maybe we have friends that have been in bad relationships from the very start and it was only a matter of time before their mate finally showed their true colors. The good news? When it's all said and done, we don’t have to lose our dignity when we're trying to move on.
Think about how much time you’ve spent trying to make things work in a relationship, only to find out that things are better off broken. Why give away so much energy to people that are just not right for you? So, why lose sleep over your ex? There are good ways to get over your ex and there are tons are wrong ways that will leave you even more confused and upset. Why not take the easy road to recovery?
Here are 5 wrong ways to get over your ex, and some right alternatives to consider:
1. Stop Being Revengeful
Some people think the best cure to heartbreak is to get payback. So, you spend hours and hours, angry texting and playing phone tag with your ex, only to start a shouting match over the phone. Yes, it does feel good to release all of the tension you’ve had since you’ve broken up, but does it really change anything? The truth is you’re only wasting breath and giving yourself more of a reason to be upset. Plus, your ex is probably feeling great, because they know that they still have that effect on you. So, why even bother?
Right Way: The best solution to let your ex know that you are happy and better than ever is to forgive them for their shortcomings and start living your life with purpose.

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